Brat Out Of Control
Friday, January 23, 2009
RANT ABOUT ANONYMOUS COMMENTS MADE BY A JERK!!!!
This is to all the anonymous SOB's that think it's funny to leave rude comments on my blog. Thanks to these "freaks" I now have set it where I will have to approve my comments , which I thought I had on in the first place but apparently not.
Usually I don't address such nonsense publicly but I am BEYOND PISSED OFF!! I have had this blog for a little over 2 years now and when I first created it ...it was for ME. A place where I can come and safely express my thoughts, feelings and anything else I wish to express without being judged!
Yes I have anonymitity here because I choose to for several personal reasons but I am a real person who has feelings! This person was beyond cruel and needless to say I ended up in tears at his/her words. I know they are NOT true but for someone to judge me just because I am a person who loves the lifestyle is NOT RIGHT!! I am overly sensitive any ways and this was the LAST thing I needed in my life right now!!
I was going to post the comments from MR. OR MS. ANONYMOUS but I didn't want to stoop to thier level so I decided not too. Yes I guess I do come to MY BLOG here and complain, bitch, whine and brat but it's my space and if I need to vent those feelings in a post then I will do so as I please. No I don't need BEAT you asshole ...I had that for 10 years in my life and said goodbye to that over two years ago and NO ONE has the right to BEAT anyone whether they are in the lifestyle or not. MG is a very sensitive and sweet guy and he would NEVER lay a hand on me in that manner at which I am thankful for .....it's about time I deserve some peace and happiness in a relationship! Yes he spanks me when I need it , deserve it or even ask for it's always out of love and concern for me!
As for my "cussing and being a obedient submissive" (as you stated you idiot) I am NOT some door mat for ANYONE to step all over! Yes I do have a slight cussing problem and I am working on thatand MG is also helping me with that but your NOT my boss so get over yourself! Maybe I do need a good spanking with some soap for my language but again YOUR NOT MY BOSS ASSHOLE SO GET OVER YOURSELF!! I am just sooooooo angry at this person that I didn't know what else to do but post an entry about it and at least I can vent my side of this! MG is a GOOD MAN and I won't allow ANYONE to talk bad about him and I think it is soooooooooo UNFAIR of this person to judge either of us when they don't know us at all. Yes I have posted some very angry and expressive entries about our D/s relationship and there are problems but there are also good entries too! Our relationship is not perfect , it has it's problems but we are happy and that is all that matters.
I am sorry to my other readers for such an explosive rant but I am so angry at this person and I didn't want to let this go unknown. I just felt that I needed to let this person know that I DO NOT APPRECIATE what he/she said. As for my other readers who have left nice comments and good advice I say THANKS! I know that I am going to get some very controversial comments from people who either don't understand D/s therefore they judge because they are either misinformed or it's uncomfortable for them so this is how they deal with it. I also understand that because I have part of my life on public display through this blog that I will get people who are going to say hurtful things because it's different and they don't understand it therefore it's only human nature to judge me or say cruel things about me. But I also will excercise my right to DEFEND MYSELF and that is what this entry is about! Do I regret creating "BRAT OUT OF CONTROL" ....NO I don't because I have made many, many good friends through this blog :) It's really been mostly a positive experience for me and this "JERK" who left these nasty comments caught me at a bad time and off guard and that is the reason why I am so angry. I won't stop posting here because this is my place to vent how I feel in a safe manner! It takes alot more to run this BRAT off :)
Labels: anonymous comments, anonymous jerk, rant
posted by Michelle at 5:16 PM
3 Comments:
Wow, I hate those anon commenters that attack so often. I think many bloggers get them But like you said these blogs are our spaces to write what we want, when we want good or bad. All relationships have ups and downs. I am so sorry that these anon attack when we our in our downs but really dont let it get to you because their are many real and non anon bloggers and readers that enjoy and like our lifestyle and the trust and caring that many of us show each other. There is always going to be those few that judge and attack but mostly because they are unsure of theirselves and have nothing better to do then judge others and be rude. I look forward to your next post though and glad you are not letting some weirdo make you stop blogging.
lol... love how someone can have the nerve to tell you how to live your life, when they don't even have the guts to share their name. It's beyond belief how stupid some people can be.
Delete the comments and don't worry about it. That's what we've always done. If someone wants to be mean to us and judge our life... they at least have to share their name.
:)
Todd & Suzy
Hi
I had problems on Marriage Bliss with rude comments. In the end I went to a private blog
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AKM
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